This week I had a huge woke up call, now I won't go into details about what happened but Katie and I fell out a little bit. We both realised that we had got to comfortable and were taking each other for granted, which after nearly 4 years is understandable. However it's not fair, so we sat down and had a huge talk which meant I had to get out of my comfort zone.. I'm not perfect so I had to listen to some hard things but it's definitely made things easier for us.
One thing I really struggle with is saying how I feel, Katie is amazingly patient with me but sometimes even she snaps and I have to be honest and say how I'm feeling, why I'm blogging about this I don't know. Perhaps you and your boyfriend/girlfriend are struggling and this might help. Just sit down and talk everything out if that person really matters they will take on board what's being said and start to make changes.
As you all know I have a slight addiction to cycling which doesn't really help a relationship. Disappearing for 4 hours on the bike makes having a conversation hard, what I'm saying is I don't have to stop riding. Maybe I could ride in the mornings that way Katie and I can spend the afternoon together having a picnic or go see a film.
With Katie going off to university in a week or so this is going to be really important, we've decided that we will make the most of the time we have together because we're both studying and no one needs a grumpy stressed partner after you travel to see them.
I'd your having trouble in a relationship step out your comfort zone and be honest with each other. And then go get cocktails it's brilliant fun... Although I'm still confused why Katie's had cream in it :p 
I hope you enjoyed this blog, sorry was bit serious. Have an amazing week!!
Sam x
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